There is a saying that when you do not know which harbour you are aiming for, no wind is the right wind. This is especially true when you are sailing in the boat of marriage on the seas of life. It is essential to have some relationship goals so that you know in which direction to sail.

How do you know if it’s working?

Once you have set your goals you need to have an evaluation time periodically, perhaps every six months or once a year, to see how you are doing. When a goal has been accomplished, make it a reason to celebrate! Be flexible if you need to re-adjust some of your goals, or set new ones as you set your sails and continue on your voyage of marriage.

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